A friend, Karen whom I met in Shanghai just published her first book in China--"One Person's Salsa Dance". I still remember one paragraph I read from one of her articles couple years ago. She said "A woman must have many things weighting in her mind if she has too many pairs of shoes."
I have never had too many shoes. So I could not prove her theory. However, I know it will take more time to choose if there are many pairs standing by your feet. It is similar to some men spending much time to pick a tie every morning. In other words, it does bother you when you have to make a only choice.
I always love high heels, not because I am short. Actually, I am tall enough. For me, high heels means "Sexy!" or "Gorgeous!". Sometimes it's really uncomfortable to wear high heel and stand for a long time. In spite of that I don't care how much pain my feet are in as long as I feel happy to have them on. I am so passionate about high heels. What about you? ...... Candy
We joined an economic discussion club last night. It was formed by a friend's husband, Paul. They invited some people who are interesed in this topic to discussions once a month. The first program in this meeting was watching a video 20th century economic history. After a 2 hour video show, we had more than 2 hours of discussion. Every attendee was aggressive to speak his opinion and share a thought. It's a very interesting and knowledgeable club.
I went to real estate school in Jan. and then passed the state exam in Feb. One week ago I sent out some resume's to apply for an appraiser job. Last Friday I went to an interview and had a nice conversation with my potential boss. This evening I got his call. He decided to train me and give me a try. What a good news! I am so happy. Actually, he is one of 3 commercial appraisers in town. It's a great chance to work with a commercial appraiser which is better than a residential appraiser.
The whole process to be a commercial appraiser is: Registered Appraiser 1 year, then Licensed Appraiser 2 years, then Certified Residential 2.5 years, then Certified General. ...... Candy
I got lots of things done recently, my tax return, fired my attorney, filed I-751, sent out resume's for appraiser, contacted art center to teach Chinese.....etc. I feel so good after finishing all these things. I do appreciate Ralph because he helps me improve my English writing.
I remember a friend once asked me "How do you feel about living alone in this country?". What a deeply thoughtful question! Actually, I became more independent mentally and physically when I decided to live apart from my family. Of course, my mood might be up and down while struggling in a new environment or meeting another challenge but the only thing I can do is to overcome all difficulties and become stronger.
I am so lucky to have some good friends here. When I cannot find a way out, they open a door for me. When my sky is dark, they provide light. When I need a shoulder, they open their arms. When my tears are running, they hand me a tissue and say "Everything will be OK!".
Some might not be able to live without kids or parents. For me, I can't live without friendship. ...... Candy
Candy's super hero, Ralph Ciccarelli 他儿子邀约了无数次，我们终于答应他一起去户外射击，4个人带了5把枪，2把来福枪和3把手枪，小伙子热心的教我如何装子弹和上膛，他和女朋友先前已有几次的射击经验，所以我是唯一一个对枪完全外行的人，Ralph是个好教练，站着我身后陪着我练习，他除了示范，还扶着我的手握枪试射了几发，让我很快掌握到要领。看着满地的弹壳，来这里打靶的人还不少呐。
Last night we hung out with Japanese friend Ayami and her husband Duke again. We went to a Korean BBQ restaurant for a delious dinner first, then drove t0 Rum Bay for drinking and crazy dancing.
Rum Bay is a famous and biggest disco club in Colorado Springs. The club is split into several sections, 4 dancing areas with different music, karaoke and a blue bar with a band.
After filling our stomachs, dancing was a very good excise to help digesting. We all had a great time the whole evening and finally ended up drinking hot coffee in another fancy place. It was midnight!!
I really like teaching and enjoy it. I started teaching Chinese here last month. My first and best student is a ENT doctor. He is not only smart but also studies hard (specially in his tight busy schedule). Now he can introduce himself in Chinese and use basic conversation. I am so proud of him.
I wish I could open a group class here in future. My new goal is to teach Chinese in Sangre de Cristo Arts and Conference Center, Pueblo. http://www.sdc-arts.org/..... Candy
